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What skills do I need to be a great leader?

26 April 2023

Leadership is so much more than having a title or a position of authority. It is about inspiring and motivating those around you to be better or different every day. And there is no dark art or mystery involved, there are skills which can be learned and improved with practice.


These are my top three; skills which are essential for becoming a great leader.


1. Emotional intelligence:

We have to start here. Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand and manage our own emotions and those of others. Developing your emotional intelligence allows you to build trust, develop rapport, and build relationships. On the flip side, being able to recognise our emotions and why we are experiencing them, gives us a better ability to cope with stress, frustration, and to deal with conflict. If you are familiar with Transactional Analysis, it keeps us in our Adult Ego state - where objectivity and accountability reign.


2. Communication:

Being able to communicate well is key to any successful relationship, and leadership is no exception. But it's such a big word and can often get confused with the medium we use rather than the skills we have to deliver it. Good communication is clear, simple and easily understood by everyone who hears, sees or reads it.  Once received, knowing how to listen to the response with all your attention is paramount and then being skilled at giving, and open to receiving, feedback comes into play. 


3. Adaptability & Collaboration:

Okay, so I've squeezed two skills into one, but I don't believe you can be adaptable without collaboration and vice versa. Understanding change is inevitable, means we need to be flexible and adaptable to cope with it. Having a growth mindset, allows us to embrace change and see it as an opportunity for learning and growth, rather than a threat or a challenge. And if we can embrace it, we can help others adapt to change by providing guidance, support, and resources.


But, we aren't superhuman, despite what history and legacy tells us, and we can't, and shouldn't, do everything on our own. We need help, support and input from others. This may be from our teams, our peers, our bosses or maybe from networking groups, mentors, coaches - there are many places to find the support you need and people to collaborate with.


The list of skills is much longer than 3 for sure, but if we can hone these ones, we are in a great place to start to develop the others...it just takes time with practice, feedback and reflection.


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by Kate Stranks 8 May 2024
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by Kate Stranks 28 March 2024
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by Kate Stranks 6 March 2024
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by Kate Stranks 21 February 2024
As the tension grows between employees wanting the flexibility of working from home versus employers wanting a full return to the office, the debate continues as to why. Cynical me might say "it's because managers don't feel like they are in control" or "we have huge office buildings sitting empty" More objective me, thinks managers and leaders don't feel they have the skills to look after the complexities of managing a hybrid team so they'd much rather see everyone face to face so they know for sure what's going on. To make yourself feel more comfortable, because there are a dozen reasons why hybrid works better for employees, there are five key actions you can take, and they all sit under the title of building trust. Trust is crucial for team cohesion, relationships and productivity, regardless of where you work, but even more so when you don't physically see your team every day. You can build trust by: Scheduling regular team meetings - probably every week to start and then you can work out as a team how to move forward. Sales teams I've worked with in the past, would have a call every Friday afternoon to celebrate successes, tackle any challenges and close off the week. Setting clear expectations - being really clear about everyone's roles, responsibilities, and goals means everyone knows what’s expected, and it's much easier to hold each other to account. Celebrate achievements, and address any performance gaps promptly. If you don't already, plan in 121s with everyone on a regular basis...these don't have to be formal video calls, the phone can still do a good job! Using the tech that works best for you - it might be Slack or Teams or Google docs or SharePoint - it doesn't matter which one you choose as long as it allows for easy collaboration and communication between everyone; something everyone can see and access every day. Communicating well and often - be clear, transparent, and accessible. Regular check-ins, team meetings, and open channels of communication help bridge the gap created by not seeing everyone every day. Paying more attention to everyone's wellbeing - the flexibility of hybrid work can blur boundaries between personal and professional life. Be empathetic, encourage breaks, promote a work-life fit, and provide support when needed. Above all else, model the behaviours you want to see . Want everyone to check-in at the team meeting on a Friday afternoon? Avoid frequent reschedules Want people to use the tech and share their updates? Make sure you do too Want your team to feel like they are trusted? Keep the focus on outcomes rather than input I could go on! There is nothing new or different here...it might take a bit more effort, energy or focus to get it right for you and your team but it'll settle - just like it did when everyone was in the office all the time.
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